Which aspect of your life do you choose to Focus on?

Life has its ups and downs, you have your good days and you have the bad. And sometimes the bad tends to overwhelm the good but that doesn't mean the value of all the good things in your life should not be recognized.

I Realized that sometimes we do not live Happily because we are not allowing ourselves to be happy, you can never be happy if you concentrate too much on the things that get/got you down. Think of yourself as an environment, are you an environment that allow happiness to survive? Do you allow good things to thrive and prosper? As much as negative things affect us, do the positive ones affect you with the same magnitude? .

Life has not been easy for me but I have seen that it has to start with me, I have to make the necessary changes and choice that will make the kind of life I want to live reality. Yes it's not easy and some changes or choices have side effects but like I've said before, if it's for the greater good of yourself then it's absolutely worth it.

Love yourself enough to be willing to go the extra mile, I'm Embracing Positive Change and I don't want to partake in this journey alone because I'm not the only one needing positive change but for as long as your reading this I know that there's still hope for better days and brighter lives out here!

Here's To Life...

This is to remind you that even if things are not going your way, even if you are in a bad space there is something that is worth celebrating and that is life, Yes we all have bad days its part of life so lets embrace every bit of it and lets look forward to a new day with our heads held up high. Celebrate life and take the little you have to make life wort living. Appreciate the little things you have in order for them to multiply.

What Is It Going To Be ??

Trials and tribulations will come and this is a reality that each and everyone face in life. When those times come life itself will feel lifeless, cold and very dark. It's the most difficult time one has to face and at times it will feel like everything is just caving in on you and there's no escaping and the amount of pressure you will find yourself in, is immeasurable. Yes this kind of situations do exist but they are not there to stand between us our dreams, they are there to make us better people,  who are positive, patient and people who know that they are tougher than the challenges they are faced with.

If a defining moment comes, will you define it or will it define you ?

Why Does It Have To Be This Hard ?

"Why does it have to feel this hard?"

I used to ask myself this question multiple times and I figured out that if it was easy we wouldn't be worthy of proclaiming it as ours. It has to hurt and it has to be hard now, so that someday when you will look back and see the change that the struggles has made in your life and the goals attained. I realised that the hardships of life are only temporary but the regrets of giving up are a lifetime. The hard times are only the building blocks of what is going to be the greatest time of your life. What I'm saying is that don't cry or give up when in hard times but rejoice because the success that is ahead, is greater than the pains and struggles you facing.

Nothing Comes Easy....

When I was a little kid I used to hear people tell their stories to success and I never believed a thing they said. Every time they stopped talking I used to tell myself that it's just a tactic they use to motivate me. I always believed that all things I wanted will just come to me without hard work or without me putting in more effort into it. But as I got older I realized that nothing comes easy, that it is the effort we put in that determines our worthiness of reaching the goals we've set for ourselves and if we prove to be worthy of owning that goal it will be granted to us. The most important lesson I learnt was that nothing comes to you it is you who goes and get it and you have to be mentally and physically ready to steadfast even when things seem to be going wrong.

>>>Nothing That's Worth Having Comes Easy<<<

Current Definition of Loneliness

Traditionally loneliness is a sad experience that comes from being apart from others, feeling alone generally. but that's not always the case because I often feel alone even when I have people around me which then shows that sometimes having people in your life does not make everything right.

For me I think its caused by having people who do not understand me personally or those who understand me but are still oblivious to what really matters to me. We all have different kinds of people in our lives, some are close, some are distant and you'd expect some sort of difference from the two which sometimes does not really exist because I sometimes feel like people will be around you for the sake of company or just to eliminate boredom and never really exceed that.

Yes one might call it expecting too much from others but I call it building a mutual relationship which benefits both persons at some point. I want to have people I can be free with without fear of anything, people who I can trust with my deepest secrets and not worry about them using it against me, people who can understand my situations and still want to be around me anyway. The list goes on and those are just the things I expect from the people who are close to me.

We do not always get what we want in life but never be afraid of expressing yourself and how you would want things to be, if those people really care then they'll understand. Now since Its a mutual thing, do not expect them to want the same things you want but rather be open to their expectations and meet them as much as they are willing to meet yours.

This is one of the things we experience at some point in our lives, but as we Embrace Positive Change we also have to learn how to deal with these issues and just be able to live life in ways that complete our true-selves.

Change Begins With You

I believe that in order to change the people around you, you have to change yourself first and that change has to be visible for every one to witness it. Change is contagious so when people begin to notice that you changed  they will be inspired to change their lives too. Your success can be another person's courage, motivation, inspiration and hope. So go ahead and be the one who brings change in the lives of people who are looking up to you. It only takes one Single courageous step to do that. I challenge you to Embrace Positive Change......

Do you accept the challenge ???

Best Gift I have to offer to everyone who Supports Embrace Positive Change...

Much Love and Appreciation!!!

Live life according to your own Standards and Discretion

We only get one chance at life, so we have to live in a way that completes and satisfies us over everything else. I do recognize that we get a lot of satisfaction from doing things that please others but we also have to recognize our own existence and remember that we also have expectations for ourselves that must not be shadowed by those of others.

for as long as your living life according to what other people expect from you, the chances of you ever really discovering and realizing yourself are slim. How are you suppose to actualize yourself if your always limited by another's expectations? How are you suppose to explore and realize your true potential if your not even allowing yourself to make decisions putting you on a path that will lead you there?

Honestly deciding to take charge of your own life is a choice that should be taken by every living being, sometimes it might be seen as being rebellious but that's better than living a predetermined life without any freedom and personal satisfaction.

I respect people who are always standing up for what they want, who are not afraid of "what others will think" and just remember that their happiness has to always come first. I found people talking and thinking on earth, and its a continuous thing I will even leave behind so I see no need to take somethings so uncontrolled and want to always be on the good side of every talk or thought!

Love and Be Yourself, You know what you want in life, so pursue it relentlessly and let nothing or no one stand in between you and your greatest desires! This is exactly how Positive Change is Embraced in one's life. 

Its Okay, Take Your Time.

One thing I have realized is that we sometimes put too much pressure on ourselves because of not being satisfied with the progress we are currently making in life, its okay to want more out of life or wish for better circumstances but remember that in order for your life to be balanced, everything has to happen at the right time so that you can recognize the benefits you receive and also not feel overwhelmed by your activities.

And there's also competition, I never put myself in situations where I feel like I'm competing with anyone in life. I try to avoid those situations at all costs because i feel like they create unnecessary tension which might lead to conflicts. Now some people believe that can be used as motivation to always aim higher than the other or to always do better which can be a good thing if one is able to separate their emotions from the whole competition and limit it only to "a motivational factor".

We set goals for ourselves on our own and deal with the challenges we encounter while trying to achieve those goals alone too, if you have someone assisting you then that's good and your fortunate but I believe that most of us do this on our own. That is why we always need to do things at a pace that does not strain us, or not at another persons pace

Its okay to push yourself once in a while to explore your abilities but let it not be because of the pressure from another person, we do not go through the same things in life, that's is why it is unnecessary sometimes to want to compare yourself to others. appreciate whatever progress your making and always do whats best for yourself because eventually we'll all arrive at the destinations we want to see ourselves at!

Embrace Positive Change

My Grandmother, She turning 65 today.

She’s one of the people who have always been there for me since day one, the role of a mother was taken up by her ever since forever for me and that has generally showed me that she has genuine love for me and never have I felt the absence of my biological mother. She's given me the best life possible which always inspires to do better with the life I have now.

She’s not perfect; no one is and should never be expected to be! But she has taught me that in life you have to make do with the little you have, that nothing in life comes easily and I need to take charge of my own life and give it direction.

 Her determination and perseverance always reminds me that nothing is ever really impossible and that in life you just need to always do your part and let the rest align itself in your favor.

She didn’t exactly have it easy in life, as most people didn’t during her time but she did not succumb to the pressures of whatever she was experiencing back then, she had goals and expectations for herself and was not willing to give them up over anything.

Most of us are fortunate that we did not have to go through the struggles they experienced, which Is more reasons to ensure that we do not put ourselves In any struggles now that might affect us negatively and hinder our positive growth in life.

I’m blessed to have her in my life and wish That God blesses her with many more years to come. Appreciate those that bring light into your life and always recognize their importance, it’s a part of embracing positivity in your life!