The Worth and Value of your life...

Often people say that you realize the worth and value of something after loosing it, let this not be the case with our lives.

Do not wait until you loose your life to realize it's worth and value, the meer fact that you're alive today should be a game changer. That alone should make you realize how blessed and fortunate you are.

Conduct an evaluation now, determine your value, worth and merit and use the results as a base for personal development.

Always believe that your worth the effort and do not allow anything to temper with that!!!

Negative situations

Negative situations are like thorns which often become a part of our lives if not dealt with properly, they are a constant reminder and often influence a lot of things in our lives.

One mistake we often make is to give too much attention to these situations, think about the continuously and give them power to affect us badly. Especially the ones we cannot change or deal with!

We can reverse that whole process by substituting every positive aspect of our life in the place of our negative situations, think about them and remind ourselves of the great feelings we felt going through them.

Yes it is not easy but it is definitely better to focus on things which make feel better or happier than those which cause self resentment and dissatisfaction.

With what ever situations I might have, I believe that it's better to invest time in trying to become the best person I could ever be, because we only get one chance at life and with the right choices once is enough!! 

What do you think of yourself......

Your body hears what your mind is saying either positive or negative. The actions you take are determined by what goes on in your mind, if you believe that you’re going to fail then you won’t put in more effort because you have already made up your mind. It doesn’t matter what your neighbor or what your friends think of you. They may say something good or bad about you but at the end of the day what matters is what you think of yourself……….

Positivity

 Make them a part of your daily life

Its A Personal Choice

Optimism

Being optimistic about life is one of the hardest things you'll ever have to do, especially when things just don't seem to be getting better for you. whenever you think your done and finally experiencing some peace of mind, something else comes up and puts you at the edge again, a lot of us can relate to this.

but seeing life positively and making optimism a way of life, filtering situations optimistically and not letting negative situations fully beat you down is very beneficial and somehow will give you a head start in dealing with most of your problems.

nothing great is ever achieved easily, but if we all just hang in there and believe that our time is coming surely all our efforts will pay off. like i always say, "we have the greatest influence over our lives" and nothing should ever substitute that!

happiness never decreases by being shared

Happiness is in sharing what you have with others. The only thing and most vital is humility, thinking about yourself less and sharing the little you have with those who have nothing can make a huge difference in their lives and your life as a human being. You don't have to experience it to understand it, You don't have to be grateful that its not you who's going through  hard times but you have to stop it from happening to any human being. Its not how much we give but how much love we put into giving.

Giving up is never a solution...

situations and circumstances sometimes will really beat you down and throw you out,

but what I suggest we do is to just stand right back up and get back in!

sometimes it is that simple...

let it go

                               

Thinking about the past won’t change the present,   

It will only bring forth regrets, pains and torture.

 If you want to begin to move you must clear Your mind of the baggage that’s holding you back.

Let go of all the bad emotional memories that suck the life out you.

The human frame wasn’t made to withstand such amount of sadness,

The past is the past, there is nothing you can do about it but you can do something about the present.

 The future lies in your hands, whether you chose to relive the past or you clear your heart, 

close Your eyes and let go of all the negative painful memories.

                

    

Appreciate the little things in life

there are those minor things happening around you everyday,

which give you nice little moments of joy.

but i think that just because they are minor or momentary,

we should perceive them that way.

why not amplify their value to us, give them that extra attention so that when ever life tries to get too real on you can think of them and let the thoughts calm you down.

think of the way you responded, whether it was with a smile or pleasant thought its going to bring a sense of positivity to your mind which will ease you down.

simple little techniques of getting the most out of the positive moments of your life

Acceptance

There are certain things in life that we just do not have any control over,

The only effective way to deal with such situations is to just accept them and move on.

Because it’s useless to blame yourself, to punish yourself, to live in sadness and sorrow because of a mistake or choice that had negative consequences.

It might not be easy but if you cannot do anything about then it’s not worth the pain,

Accept it, be at peace with it and just move on,

The value of your life cannot be revoked by a single thing.

Acceptance is a very powerful tool to use if you want to make it in this world!

Its Never Too Late To Make A Difference

There are a lot of things which go on in our lives,

It might be to us or the next person and positive or negative,

But somehow we are affected.

We are worried or disturbed by different things in life,

Some are worried by the environment in which they live in,

Some are disturbed by the children they pass everyday by the robots on their way to work,

Or anything else that might not be sitting well with you.

But there’s always something that can be done, a difference can be made no matter how great or little it is,

You can choose not to ignore those little problems which indirectly affect you,

And take the initiative of bringing change.

Are you going to Scream or Enjoy it?

life is no smooth ride, that's something that we all can agree on,

because no matter how fortunate you are, there are times where life just gets too real on us that we don't think that we can handle it anymore.

but there are ways to deal with all those challenges, and the success of those ways is influenced by how we view life.

Its a personal choice, You decide how to live out your life!

Determination

Determination is one of the most powerful defenses against the challenges of life,

Because it gives you the courage and ability to keep going no matter how difficult it gets.

Channel all you focus to the positive side of every situation, do not allow negativity to overwhelm you.

The sooner you start believing that your greater than any problem, situation or circumstance the better. 

Because that's when you'll start realizing the power invested within you, sitting there waiting for you to tap into it and pull through.

You can become a power house,

 A force to be reckoned with, 

You just need to viewing seeing yourself as an able being,

Someone who's destined for greater things in life,

Yes there are challenges but do not let them define who you are or what you become,

Your greater than that.

The worst mistake you can ever make in life is to give up on yourself!

Always believe that your worth the struggle, and none of your efforts to make it our there goes to waste. 

One day it will pay off.

You do not need a reason to be happy

to me happiness is a personal choice,

its something that you wake up and declare,

it should be a continuous state of mind,

decide on it,

and promise yourself that its how you want to live out your life.

learn to let go of things you cannot change...

someone very strong in my life said,

when the past calls do not answer because it has nothing new to say!!!

you have the power to do something...

don't wait for a miracle,

make it happen, choose to not be in that situation and just find an alternative.

we have the greatest influence over our lives, so take charge and head for a better place in life.

you have the power!!!

You Are Only Human : Strong people deal with strong people's challenges...

You Are Only Human : Strong people deal with strong people's challenges...: no one said its gonna be easy what builds us as people is the ability to go through everyday challenges without breaki...

Strong people deal with strong people's challenges

no one said its gonna be easy

what builds us as people is the ability to go through everyday challenges without breaking

making it when everyone has lost hope

we are incredibly strong

never doubt that, no matter how hard it gets!!

YOU HAVE WHAT IT TAKES, BELIEVE IN YOURSELF!!!!