Focus Is Vital

Nothing really becomes dynamic if it's not first specific, no greater destiny can emerge without focus. Focus is the ability to look unwaveringly at your purpose and assignment without destructions sometimes people are involved in so many project's and all of them fail because they lack the required focus.

The Reality of Life

First Post for this year, hope it brings some light and comfort to you and wish you all the best in all that you do!!!

Life is a continuous cycle of different events and experiences, in life we have good, bad, happy, fast and slow times. Life to me is time, as it is used to measure life.

The reality of your life will stay with you because it is who you are and will stay with you for the given time you have In this world. Sometimes it is not what we want or expect from life at the time but remember that it is those imperfections that derive our true selves and what we are capable of.

I know a lot of people who are always Living outside the reality of their lives, and yes maybe it's working for them and gives them a sense of freedom in some way but what I have realized is that some things are like our shadows, no matter how far or fast you move they are always there by your side.

There are things that are within your reach, things you can do something about and maybe change them for the better in your life and there are those that are rigid, inflexible and out of reach but are part of your everyday life.

The only way of dealing with such things is through recognition and acceptance. Recognize the reality of your life, see how it's affecting you(which can either be negative/positive/both) identity those that you can change or do something about and just accept the ones you can't change and just try seeking ways of making them work for/with you in order to make you a better person.

Embrace Positive Change!!

Embrace Your Individuality. ....

I spent half my life wanting to fit in, I did things only to be seen as a cool person and I went out of my way to get other people's approval. I did what I thought was right in the eyes of other people but to me it didn't feel right. 

Sometimes we are afraid to embrace who we are because we are afraid of the reaction we will from our friends, families and the community at large. We are striving to fit in whereas we have to stand out. 

One thing that I learnt is that if you don't embrace who you really are, you will be half the person you are supposed to be and this means you are limiting yourself. 

Don't let your other people's opinions about you drown your inner voice, one thing that is certain is that we are all unique, so just go out there and be yourself for there will never be anyone like you.... 

One Step At A Time

Every step you take towards your success makes you a step closer to achieving it.  I have learnt that things don’t just happen but we are the ones who make things happen and the first rule of making things happen is that we should get out of our comfort zone and get out there and chase that one thing we really want. It might not happen overnight and it might not be as easy as it sounds but with endurance and determination it will happen. Look it doesn’t matter when it will happen what really matters is knowing that it will happen. When you have the assurance that something will happen you won’t be shaken by failure or hardships.

It only begins with one positive step at a time.

Which aspect of your life do you choose to Focus on?

Life has its ups and downs, you have your good days and you have the bad. And sometimes the bad tends to overwhelm the good but that doesn't mean the value of all the good things in your life should not be recognized.

I Realized that sometimes we do not live Happily because we are not allowing ourselves to be happy, you can never be happy if you concentrate too much on the things that get/got you down. Think of yourself as an environment, are you an environment that allow happiness to survive? Do you allow good things to thrive and prosper? As much as negative things affect us, do the positive ones affect you with the same magnitude? .

Life has not been easy for me but I have seen that it has to start with me, I have to make the necessary changes and choice that will make the kind of life I want to live reality. Yes it's not easy and some changes or choices have side effects but like I've said before, if it's for the greater good of yourself then it's absolutely worth it.

Love yourself enough to be willing to go the extra mile, I'm Embracing Positive Change and I don't want to partake in this journey alone because I'm not the only one needing positive change but for as long as your reading this I know that there's still hope for better days and brighter lives out here!

Here's To Life...

This is to remind you that even if things are not going your way, even if you are in a bad space there is something that is worth celebrating and that is life, Yes we all have bad days its part of life so lets embrace every bit of it and lets look forward to a new day with our heads held up high. Celebrate life and take the little you have to make life wort living. Appreciate the little things you have in order for them to multiply.

What Is It Going To Be ??

Trials and tribulations will come and this is a reality that each and everyone face in life. When those times come life itself will feel lifeless, cold and very dark. It's the most difficult time one has to face and at times it will feel like everything is just caving in on you and there's no escaping and the amount of pressure you will find yourself in, is immeasurable. Yes this kind of situations do exist but they are not there to stand between us our dreams, they are there to make us better people,  who are positive, patient and people who know that they are tougher than the challenges they are faced with.

If a defining moment comes, will you define it or will it define you ?