we are always encouraged to share and it was never restricted to only positive things.
In life we need to realize that we are not alone, we are not supposed to deal with everything on our own. We can never make it on ourselves, so we all need to have people who will always be there for us whether through good or bad.
For people to start contributing positively in your life you first need to allow them to do so because sometimes people will care about you voluntarily and yet you never appreciate it because you claim to have never asked them to do so.
One thing I have learned about dealing with problems independently is that you run out of solutions sometimes and get overwhelmed by emotions of failure or disappointment.
Having people to talk to about what you go through is very helpful because you will find that the next person has a different point of view about your problem and can easily help you deal with it, so this is something that most of us should start practicing.
Never allow yourself to feel like you’re a burden just because you shared you problems with someone in your life.
Give the next person an opportunity to help you turn your life around, it’s their responsibility if the genuinely care about you.